I can't remember the place and honestly can't remember the person, but I remember in the middle of conversation being asked what I am afraid of. My reply: "Being a failure." I remember the guy saying that is typical because "people like you" normally say that.
I didn't pay it any attention then, but later I kept wondering what "people like you" meant. He hadn't really known me long enough to categorize me in a group of people to make that kind of comment. As I ask myself that question today, the answer remains the same. I would imagine that for a lot of "people like me" - whatever that means -their sentiments are the same.
Recent graduates are in an awkward place in their life. You don't know what to do next, wondering if the next move is going to be the right move. I can't speak for everyone, but I know when I graduated I was worried that one wrong decision would lead me down a career path I would regret. By His grace, I haven't regretted any decisions. Sure, the city I live in is quite depressing, but I have learned a lot and have started to figure out where I want my life to go. Somewhat.
All of this is to say that I don't think that there is anything wrong with being afraid of failure. That fear keeps you driven and eager. For me, failure is my competition. I know that I always have to be two steps ahead if I want to win.
What are you afraid of? Is it crazy for one to fear failure?
I am afraid of failure also...a lot of times it seems like I have to work twice as hard to get half of what someone else has. It is crazy but I do. I have come to realize that everyone excels at different rates so because it was their time doesn't mean that it was mine....luv ya lb!!!! -sbw
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